Saying “yes, and” to fear

With Stephen Burt, 28.11.25

Humans are wired to fear uncertainty and the unknown, and we often avoid potential opportunities because they seem too risky or uncomfortable. We cling to familiar patterns even when they no longer serve us, worried about what might happen if we let go.

This week’s guest, Stephen Burt, suggests embracing uncertainty as a path to growth and creativity. By saying “yes, and” to our fears – acknowledging them while still moving forward – we can discover possibilities we might otherwise miss. This approach transforms fear from an obstacle into a doorway to new experiences.

Living in constant resistance to uncertainty constrains our potential and prevents us from using all that we have. We risk looking back with regret at opportunities not taken and parts of ourselves left unexplored.

So instead of automatically saying “no”, you might try saying “yes, and what might be possible here?”

This conversation will help you

Highlights

Resources

Looking for a Leadership Programme?

We work with leaders who want to make a real difference. They know this is about leading from the inside out. They come to us to learn how.

READ MORE

Discover More

How to avoid an avalanche

By Sally-Anne, 17.01.25

Imagine yourself high up in the mountains on a 48-hour hike with an old friend. Light snow is forecast and you’ve prepared for that. But when the snow comes it’s far heavier than expected, and avalanche risk is all around… This is what happened last winter to mountain leader Arno de Jong and his closest […]

The courage to look for the love

By Sally-Anne, 31.01.25

When Osian was born after only 23 weeks, he had to fight through countless medical complications. For his mother, Georgina, it was an exhausting time filled with uncertainty, pushing her to her limits as a parent and caregiver. Despite this, Georgina focused on creating a life filled with love, joy, and connection for Osian. She […]

Never give up – there is always a way through

By Sally-Anne, 14.02.25

Sometimes as leaders we face situations that feel overwhelming, whether it’s uncertainty, financial struggles, or the fear of letting others down. These challenges can take a toll on our mental and physical health, and even our confidence in moving forward. But we can overcome these tough moments by staying focused, being resourceful, and never giving […]

VIEW ALL